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Article:
Choosing a Divorce Lawyer
By Maury D. Beaulier
Finding Your Lawyer
Divorce can be an intimidating process
for the uninitiated. In law, there is no area that generates as much
paper work or requires the filing of more forms. As a result, the
process can be confusing, time consuming, and often, very costly
financially and emotionally. As a result, choosing a lawyer may be
the most important decision you make.
Not every lawyer will be right for every
person. You must be sure that your philosophy of the proceedings
matches with your lawyers philosophy. As a result, you must ask
questions that reflect your specific concerns.
A good lawyer will:
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help you to understand and focus on the issues of your
divorce without losing sight of the emotional nature of the
proceedings;
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help you to prepare for court
proceedings in advance
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Provide prompt and courteous
responses to your questions;
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provide information and methods to
help you reduce your legal fees.
To choose an attorney you should find a
number of candidates to interview. The best way to find a good
lawyer is to ask for a recommendation from someone you know and
trust. However, don't just get names form you friends. Instead,
ask them detailed questions regarding the specific strengths and
weaknesses of the attorneys they recommend. If you still need more
prospects, you may locate a lawyer through your local bar
association's attorney referral service or through an internet
listing service.
WHAT IF I CANNOT AFFORD A LAWYER?
Most states have non-profit
organizations that will represent low income divorce litigants.
Often these organizations are called "Legal Aid" or "Legal Aid
Services." You may also find student lawyers ready to assist you
through practicum courses at local law schools. To find legal aid
services in your area, you may wish to start with your local bar
association or law schools in your area.
Remember that finding lawyers is only
the first step. A referral service simply compiles a listing of
attorneys in your geographic without screening the attorneys listed
for reputation or experience. You must still interview your
attorney to determine whether he or she is qualified and whether his
or her philosophy fits with your own.
INTERVIEWING CANDIDATES
It is important to remember that not
every lawyer is appropriate for every client. It is important that
your philosophy matches that of your attorney. Nothing is worse than
feeling like your interests are not being represented or that you
are being bullied into a settlement. The lawyer is there to provide
you with advice on the legal issues and to plan strategies regarding
the presentation of the case. However, the ultimate decisions
regarding the legal issues are yours alone.
Remember, it is your case!
Most lawyers will offer a free initial
consultation. You should speak with the lawyers that you intend to
interview in advance regarding any costs associated with your first
meeting. Meeting with a lawyer may seem intimidating. To ensure that
you are prepared, you may wish to make out a list of questions or
points that you would like to raise in the interview. Additionally,
If you have already been served legal papers, bring them to the
interview along with any correspondence or other relevant documents.
This will allow the lawyer to assess the potential issues in your
case.
Some questions you may wish to ask
include the following:
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How long have you been a lawyer;
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What is your primary area of practice;
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Do you have any other practice areas;
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What percentage of your caseload is
dedicated to divorce;
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Have you handled cases with issues similar to mine;
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Do you have a heavy caseload and do you have time for my
case;
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Have you handled many divorce cases
in my county;
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What is the divorce process in my
county;
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What are the likely obstacles and
issues in my case;
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What are my alternatives in
resolving the issues;
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Is there any process you would
recommend and why;
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Approximately how long will the
process take;
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What are your rates and how often will you bill me;
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What are the costs I can expect in
this case;
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What are the legal fees I can expect
in this case;
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Will the lawyer accept payments on
any outstanding balance;
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How will you keep me informed of the
progress in my case;
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What kind of approach do think is
appropriate and why -aggressive and unyielding, or cooperative.
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Who else in the office will be
working on my case and what is their rate;
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Is there anything I can do to keep my legal fees down.
SELECTING YOUR LAWYER
When interviewing lawyers, you should
listen carefully to the answers provided. However, equally
important to assess the lawyer's personality. How does he or she
make you feel? Confident? Frightened? Is the lawyer willing to
spend time with you and provide answers at the initial meeting in a
friendly manner? How you feel about your lawyer may affect your
ability to communicate effectively with that person over emotional
and highly personal matters. After each interview, assess the
strengths and weaknesses of the candidate. Did the lawyer listen to
you? Did the lawyer provide enough information to make you feel
comfortable that he or she knew the law and procedure in your state
and county? Did you feel confident?
ESTABLISHING A WORKING
RELATIONSHIP
After you choose your lawyer, it is
important to establish ground rules and philosophies to ensure that
your are on the same wave length as your lawyer. What do you expect
from your lawyer? What dies your lawyer expect from you?
It is important to discuss your specific
objectives and the issues that are important to you. Together you
may then plot a course to resolve those issues. You should also
discuss avenues of communication. One complaint that is heard most
often is that "my attorney did not return my call." Discuss the
possible ways for you to communicate with your lawyer, including
telephone, fax and/or e-mail.
If you have difficulty reaching your
attorney, it is because the attorney is not available or has a court
conflict. In such instances you should contact his secretary or
legal assistant to schedule a telephone conference on the attorney's
calendar. By scheduling the conference, you are assured of reaching
your attorney at the designated time.
Be honest with your lawyer. Do not hold
back relevant information even if it seems embarrassing. Your lawyer
cannot protect your interests with only half of the facts. There is
nothing worse than being surprised at trial by unexpected
information.
Finally, if you have any questions about
billing, raise them as soon as you receive a copy of your bill.
It is very important that you understand
your legal fees and your lawyer's billing procedure. You
should talk specifically about those costs during your initial
conference. |