Colorado Divorce Law Residency Requirements for Divorce in Colorado

One spouse must have been a resident of Colorado for 90 days prior to filing for dissolution of marriage. The dissolution of marriage may be filed for in: (1) the county where the respondent resides or (2) the county in which the petitioner resides if the respondent has been served in the same county or is a non-resident of Colorado.
[Colorado Revised Statutes; Article 10, Section 14-10-106 and
Colorado Rules of Civil Procedure, Rule 98].

Legal Grounds for Divorce in Colorado

  1. No Fault Divorce: Irretrievable breakdown of the marriage.
    [Colorado Revised Statutes; Article 10, Section 14-10-106].
  2. General Divorce: Irretrievable breakdown of the marriage is the only grounds for dissolution of marriage in Colorado.
    [Colorado Revised Statutes; Article 10, Section 14-10-106].
Legal Separation in Colorado
If there has been an irretrievable breakdown of the marriage, the spouses may file for a legal separation. One spouse must have been a resident of Colorado for 90 days prior to filing for legal separation.
[Colorado Revised Statutes; Article 10, Section 14-10-106].

Simplified/Special Divorce Procedures in Colorado
A dissolution of marriage may be obtained by affidavit of either or both of the spouses if:

1. There are no minor children and the wife is not pregnant or both spouses are represented by counsel and have entered into a separation agreement granting custody and child support
2. There are no disputes
3. There is no marital property or the spouses have agreed on the division of marital property
4. The adverse party (non-filing spouse) has been served with the dissolution of marriage papers

A signed affidavit stating the facts in the case must be filed with the petition.
[Colorado Revised Statutes; Article 10, Section 14-10-120.3].

Divorce Mediation or Counseling Requirements
At the request of either spouse or their attorney, or at the discretion of the court, the court may appoint a marriage counselor in any dissolution of marriage or legal separation proceeding and delay the proceedings for 30 to 60 days to allow for counseling. In addition, the court may order a parent of a child under 18 years of age to attend a program concerning the impact of separation and dissolution on children. Finally, a court may appoint an arbitrator to resolve disputes between parents concerning child support and custody.
[Colorado Revised Statutes; Article 10, Sections 14-10-110, 14-10-123.7, 14-10-128.5, and 14-12-106].

Divorce Property Distribution
Colorado is an "equitable distribution" state. The separate property of each spouse which was owned prior to the marriage or obtained by gift or inheritance is retained by that spouse. All other property acquired during the marriage will be divided, without regard to any fault, based on the following:

1. The contribution of each spouse to the acquisition of the marital property, including the contribution of each spouse as homemaker
2. The value of each spouse's separate property
3. The economic circumstances of each spouse at the time the division of property is to become effective, including the desirability of awarding the family home or right to live in it to the spouse having custody of any children
4. Any increase or decrease in the value of the separate property of the spouse during the marriage or the depletion of the separate property for marital purposes.


[Colorado Revised Statutes; Article 10, Section 14-10-113].

Alimony and Spousal Support
Either spouse may be awarded support for a just period of time, without regard to any marital fault. If the spouses' combined income is over $75,000.00, the monthly temporary maintenance to the lower-earning spouse will be 40% of the higher-earning spouse's income less 50% of the lower-earning spouse's income. If the spouses' combined income is over $75,000.00, maintenance is only allowed if the spouse seeking maintenance:

1. Lacks sufficient property, including his or her share of any marital property, to provide for his or her needs
2. Is unable to support himself or herself through appropriate employment, or has custody of a child and the circumstances are such that the spouse should not be required to seek employment outside the home

For couples with over $75,000.00 joint income, the award of maintenance is based upon the following factors:

1. The time necessary to acquire sufficient education and training to enable the spouse to find appropriate employment and that spouse's future earning capacity
2. The standard of living established during the marriage
3. The duration of the marriage
4. The ability of the spouse from whom support is sought to meet his or her needs while meeting those of the spouse seeking support
5. The financial resources of the spouse seeking maintenance, including marital property apportioned to such spouse and such spouse's ability to meet his or her needs independently
6. The age of the spouses
7. The physical and emotional conditions of the spouses
8. Any custodial and child support responsibilities

Maintenance payments may be ordered to be paid directly to the court for distribution to the spouse.
[Colorado Revised Statutes; Article 10, Sections 14-10-114 and 14-10-117].

Spouse's Name After Divorce
There is no legal provision in Colorado for restoration of the spouse's name upon divorce. However, there is a general statute which allows for the change of a person's name upon petition to the court.
[Colorado Revised Statutes; Article 10, Section 13-15-101].

Child Custody After Divorce
Joint or sole custody will be determined with regard to the best interests of the child, without regard to the sex of the parent, and after considering the following factors:

1. The preference of the child
2. The desire and ability of each parent to allow an open and loving frequent relationship between the child and the other parent
3. The wishes of the parents
4. The child's adjustment to his or her home, school, and community
5. The mental and physical health of all individuals involved
6. The relationship of the child with parents, siblings, and other significant family members
7. Any child abuse or spouse abuse by either parent
8. Whether a parent's past involvement with the child reflects a system of values, time commitment, and mutual support
9. The physical proximity of the parties to each other
10. The ability of each party to place the needs of the child ahead of his or her own needs

Visitation may be restricted if there is a danger to the child.

Joint custody may be awarded on the petition of both parents if they submit a reasonable plan for custody. The plan submitted to the court for joint custody should address the following issues:

1. The location of each parent
2. The periods of time during which each parent will have physical custody of the child
3. The legal residence of the child
4. The child's education
5. The child's religious training, if any
6. The child's health care
7. Finances to provide for the child's needs
8. Holidays and vacations
9. Any other factors affecting the physical or emotional health or well-being of the child

The actual joint custody award is based on all of the factors involved in standard custody decisions and on the following additional factors:

1. The ability of the parents to cooperate and make decisions jointly
2. Whether the past pattern of involvement of the parents with the child reflects a system of values and mutual support which indicates the parent's ability as joint custodians to provide a positive and nourishing relationship with the child
3. Whether an award of joint custody will promote more frequent or continuing contact between the child and each of the parents


[Colorado Revised Statutes; Article 10, Sections 14-123, 14-124, and 14-129].

Child Support After Divorce
The court may order reasonable and necessary child support to be paid by either or both parents, without regard to marital fault, after considering the following factors:

1. The financial resources of the child
2. The financial resources of the custodial parents
3. The standard of living the child would have enjoyed if the marriage had not been dissolved
4. The physical and emotional conditions and educational needs of the child
5. The financial resources, needs, and obligations of both the noncustodial and the custodial parent

Provisions for medical insurance and medical care for any children may be ordered to be provided. There are specific child support guidelines specified in the statute. In addition, standardized child support guideline forms are available from the Clerk of any District Court. Child support payments may be ordered to be paid through the Clerk of the Court. Child support must continue through high school graduation, unless certain factors are met.
[Colorado Revised Statutes; Article 10, Sections 14-10-115 and 14-10-117].

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Resource Article:

Why Men Leave (Common Reasons Men Leave Relationships)
By Dr Brenda Shoshanna
Dec 4, 2006, Mon, 4 Dec 2006 13:41


There are many different reasons why men leave relationships or refuse to settle down with the woman they are with. It’s important for women to take a good look at these reasons. To their surprise and delight, they will discover that most of the reasons why men leave have nothing to do with them.

Some men cling to the ghost of past relationships, idealizing an old love and deciding they'll never find a person like that again.

It feels safer to hold onto the past than risk failure with someone who is available today. These men prefer to dwell in a memory than to face the reality of present day life.

For some, this memory goes back to their mothers. No woman can live up to mom, or to any other woman they idealize. They begin to imagine that these other women were perfect and gave them unconditional love. Whatever their present girlfriend does is compared with that. No woman can win over an idealized memory. These men are living in dreams.

Other men leave seeking excitement and challenge. Being with someone who loves them becomes boring and flat. After years of dating beautiful women who adored him but for whom he felt little, Frederick, a handsome, articulate architect, in his late thirties, finally fell in love. It was a tumultuous situation, however.

"I was in love with Fern for three years,” he said. "But I left her three times and each time she came back, wanting me again. No other woman had done that before. Fern was very neurotic. I guess that’s what attracted me.”

Some men find the lack of stability in a woman to be challenging, exciting and erotic. The unpredictability creates a situation where there is a constant sense of danger and threat of loss. This keeps these men constantly on the alert, so things never become routine. Excitement is confused with passion. There is a sense that, because of the turmoil, they are finally alive. After awhile it usually becomes too much.

"I finally left Fern and never went back,” Frederick said. “It became too exhausting in the long run.”

When men are attracted to neurotic women, it is interesting to note that these men are often attracting a partner who is expressing what he is also going through inside. She may be acting out what he is feeling and not able to express. When he finally becomes angry with the woman, he is really angry with himself. What we cannot accept in another is always something we haven't been able to accept in ourselves.

Other stresses also cause men to leave relationships. When a man is unhappy at his job, or when he feels pressured to commit, before he is ready, old dreams that haven’t been fulfilled will come up to haunt him. He then will begin to feel that this is the time to live out these dreams. These men often feel justified in abruptly leave unsatisfying relationships in search of their fantasies and dreams.

When Renee, handsome, strong, the successful owner of a well know beauty salon left for a new woman he said, “No one leaves if they're happy. After awhile you just begin to feel time is running out and you get tired of the bad stuff. You feel you don't need it anymore. You paid your dues. You're tired."

When asked why he felt the attraction to a different woman, he said, “Part of it is just plain beauty. But also she was much younger. I like that. A young woman looks up to a guy because he's older and can do all these things for her, and he adores her because she's young, pretty and makes him look good and feel good and proud."

Implicit in this is a deep need men have to be looked up to, valued, respected and recognized, not only by his peers, but by the woman he's with. Especially at a time in life when a man's sense of himself is wavering, it is extremely uplifting to have a woman

who looks up to him and what he has achieved. Unfortunately,

at this point, some wives of long standing can only see their man’s deficits. If they then remind him of his failings constantly, it's often more than his ego can bear.

Though there are many more factors contributing to men leaving relationships, a common theme appears through all of them. The men are not necessarily responding to the woman they are leaving, but to their own inner needs, conflicts and dreams.

Often they experience the woman in their lives simply as a part of their own sense of self. It is not the woman herself who necessarily causes the man to leave, but the man's feelings about himself, his own inner fantasy and quest.
 

Divorce Factoid:
Divorce Rates In Japan

Japan divorce rate is approximately 27%. One in every four marriages ends up to divorce. According to Reuters, The number of divorces annually has almost doubled since 1990, with 264,000 couples formally breaking up in 2000. From 2000 to 2004, there is a little bit drop in the divorce rate in Japan.

If we compare the Japan divorce rate with the divorce rates of the other countries:
Divorce rate per 1000 couples

Japan: 2.2
USA:4.0
Germany: 2.4
France: 1.9
Italy: 0.7
UK: 2.6
Sweden: 2.4

From above statistics, it is clear that divorce rate is about half than US divorce rate.

According to Health Ministry statistics, divorces rate in Japan had more than doubled, from just over 95,000 in 1970 to 206,955 in 1996.
 

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